cuty baby.........thoughts...........

Got a thought to describe how a tiny little baby's thinks themselves......inside.............
If I could talk, here's what I'd say happy with you, I want to stay........
Hold me, hug me, let me see your happy face, smiling back at me......Hold me, cuddle me in your arms.....
Keep me safe from all that harms............The time is right, for me to hold.............
when you're less busy, I'll be too old..............You're much happier, you worry less..............when you can see, I have no stress...........
It makes good sense, you must confess.........There's time later to clean the mess............
Let no schedule, furrow your brow........Let us enjoy this time, right now..................
Career and dreams are important too.........they are, a significant part of you
When I'm older we'll join the race............It's better then, to pick up the pace
I don't know, if we've got one or two.....I don't care, it's old or new.................
Why would I care, if we have a view...............What I do know, is, I want YOU...............Nurture me now, don't put me on hold............
Its your time I want, not your gold...........Cuddle me, comfort me, dispel my fears.............
Holding me close and tending my tears..............dispels my imagined, and real fears............
Up in your arms with you I yearn............Carry me, hold me, its my turn...........
Show me skills, that I may learn.............I love to hear, and to feel your voice..........
Its in simple things, that I rejoice...............When I can hear and when I can see.............learning to speak, is easier for me..........
How I love your caring smile won't you sit with me a while
Cuddle me, kiss me, let us frolic.......there'll be no time, for fretful colic.........
I love the rhythm of your heart...........It comforts me and lets me know..........that you're still here and shall not go
That you love me, I will know......when you help me learn and grow........
Lets enjoy this love, of which we're fond.........living together and creating a bond.........
Snuggle me tenderly to your chest............Suckle and comfort me at your breast.........
Keep me close, at the centre of your life we'll both encounter a lot less strife....................
My wholesome security and self esteem.............are a worthy goal, not just a dream
Fortunate for me, thats what I'll get for because of love, we two have met......
When your fragrance, I can smell........I'm brought comfort, 'cause I can tellthat you are close and all is well
As you work, walk, take a trip with me safely balanced, upon your hip our muscle tone will be much greater.........and I'll be walking, sooner than later
Show me the very best ways to go so when I'm older, up straight, I'll grow.........
When you meet all of my needs my health and development succeeds.....
I feel loved, happy and content...........Your time with me is well spent..........
Great dividends we all will reap as I lay contented, down to sleep..........
We will wake, refreshed and ready full of joy, strong and steady........
Give me security for which I long........let me know that I belong.............
Your sweet voice upon my ears...........comforts me and makes me strong.........
It quiets me and soothes my tears.........now that I know that you are near........
With your help, I'll find wings..........and be moving on to greater things............
Soon enough, I'll walk, run and play entertaining myself, for most of the day.........
I hope I've helped, for you to see........we're both better off, when you carry me........sandhyaraj........

Mumbai blasts today.................

Bomb Blast this is a word which general people don't want to listen,but due to some unwanted people called terrorist the world became horrible...........
 As yeterday evening...........I am watching news regrading this bomb blast at Mumbai and funny thing is that "media and leaders of country are busy in finding which group is belong to it", but as general citizen i would like to say that it isn't a time to decide which group, it is time to find "WHY" it happens..........
I know our leader cannot give answer of "WHY",Only few comments will come then after some days everything will normal and this incident will take a place in page of Indian history.....
So, stop talking and take decision on the spot and try to stop those incidents..........
From my side question is that should we need leader?
Not once or twice or thrice.... Many times such terror attacks are happening in Mumbai or other places of India.
Till there are the corrupted politicians/ministers in the Government and corrupted/paralyzed people being in the Intelligence departments, I hope, there will never be an end to terror attacks...........
In Every terror attack, only the common people are dying/wounded/suffered...........
The politicians/ministers are always safe everywhere.........
The News Channels are getting more TRPs.......
Opposition parties are getting a chance to point their fingers to the Government.........
Other people are silent because they are safe and none of their families or relatives or friends are dead/wounded....
But I believe, only the young generation can get together and step forward to change all these systems and bring an end to such terror attacks.........
Also we need more Anna Hazares amongst the young generation of India........
What reaction can one give?
Why should we just react amongst ourselves?
Why doesn't anyone ask the Govt. ask to react strongly against all those who do this?
It's quite easy for all of us who are safe or haven't lost anyone in such incidents to just Blog or post on our profiles about such incidents...... But what about those who loose their dear ones?
Why can't one have guarntee of safe and risk free life even after striving so hard and paying such high taxes to the Government?
Why can't these parties rise and think above cast, creed and religion to keep those people happy who put them to power?
Why can't we (the common people) become a (atleast) little selfless and start thinking about others and start respecting other people's existence and their diginity?
Have becom so stubborn and cold hearted in this Computer age that we feel the need to express our condolonces only on the Internet and phone rather than going to those who have suffered and wipe their tears?
Once again, we will just salute the spirit of Mumbaikars and then forget everything else and resume our daily life!
But can't their spirit be used for their own well being and their security so as to remove their fears of such incidents constantly happening around?
Can anyone, in any part of this country guarantee that his dear one who leaves home in the morning will come back safely at home in the evening?
Why can't there be assurity that those people whom we have elected and those are repsonsible for general safety are there to protect US?
Why blame just them? They are those who just like US before they went there....
Can we guarantee that after 50-100 years Humans will be Humans only and not Robots or Cyborgs with no emotion for each other?
Above all..........
The Government should first execute Afzal Guru and Ajmal Kasab without any further delay..............
No more dilly dallying.........
Then they should nab all persons connected with Indian Mujahideen,SIMI and other like outfits...........
They should be tried as spies by the Army Court,convicted and executed summarily by firing squad and their bodies left lying along the border from where the Pakis infiltrate into India signaling that this is the fate that awaits them if they enter India.............
Have a Good Day.

WHAT IS A WIFE..............

A woman who feels desired is many things..............
She is less likely to reach frustration with husband or the children or the cat or the dog...........
She is more likely to feel like an important part of your life and the home you share and the children you created together...............
She is more likely to look at her own body............and instead of feeling disgust at the way it has changed............
Since bringing your children into the world........................
A woman who feels desired is so much easier to sit across the table fromas she is less likely to be judging her own skin,her own curves,her own worth..........
She is more likely to care for the body she has been given,feed it good, whole foods put it to frequent use in the garden enjoy the pull of muscle and increasing strength
as she carries ever-growing children........... and becomes more confident with household repairs............................
A woman who feels desired will rear children who see their bodies as perfect works of art that should be celebrated respected and capable of love....................
It takes very little to make a woman feel desired..............
It does not require expensive jewelery..............
exotic flowers...............pages of poems..........romantic dates................or even dramatic words..................
It is  nothing more than a look a simple touch a well placed word and by listening to what she's saying and then responding appropriately.............is what a woman expect's..........
Without those simple things even a strong woman may start to feel less.......
And less leads to depression self loathing ..........anger.................
frustration................bad parenting and a marriage that may not last the next five years..........................
So when your wife asks you,
"Do you love me forever?"the answer should never bea long pause followed by a apologetic
"I just love you."
Because sometimes,a woman needs to know she is desired............. 
                                              or
 she'll start to believe it is no longer true....................
                                                                sandhyaraj....
Better forward to all men............who neglect their wife's

EARLY IN THE MORNING...........

Today earlyin the morning mist my heart looks like a beach................
After a long summers day absolute chaos...............
A whole life of people Or just a day of chaos..............
And today when my heart was just like a beach early morning just as the sun came up...................washed clean of all that came before not a print unblemished by peoples disregard for it is clean of all chaos...................
Then today should let the first person in who walk a long trail lonely path cut into fresh sand serenity has come beauty.....
The first footprint interrupted by a calm wave sweeping to interrupt the first sign of someone walking on my heart...........
Then in imagination as the day passes time drags on the beauty changed more people than just one disrupting my clean beach walking, jumping, lying on my beach........................
The beauty changed to chaos but for one thing the footprint of love of care that the beauty should not be touched........
Then hurt of the careless one leaving their dirt behind muddy footprints of a careless child or a conceited adult.............
So during the erosion of my beach day in day out night for night cleaning and sweeping.................
But for those careless footprints of the one who used the beach with no care..................
Will the footprints of the new day come back and make the heart forget those yesterday chaos..................

I AM GOING TO START A NEW LIFE FRIENDS...........

Hurray...........Yuppies...............
LOlz........Am so happy..............
Life rocks........rocks..........................
Yah.........Am Happy...............
Very happy for I have whole life ahead now....................
To look at with a shine..............
Which will be like sunshine..................
Treasure which I will.................
Yah......Yuppies......Hurray
Am so HAPPY! Today..............
For I am open now to  a new life...........with my marraige..........with my situ..........
With a prospect of a bright future.........
Which will be beautiful............
So beautiful......As never...............
Life is finally going to be happy..........
With LOLZ...........And HURRAYS..............
With lot of sunshine............
And great life ahead...................
Dedicated which will be..........
Towards understanding it.................
With a mind which will be free............
For I can breathe fresh air of relief.................
And joy at the level of being high.................
Which means now its tones of happiness..........
And am welcoming With open arms to be...............
Forever....And ever..........
Till the breath of infinity................ 
SANDHYARAJ

WISHING INDIA TO ROCK AGAIN.................

In cricket, what better achievement can be other than winning the world cup............
It being a religion in India, it shall be a national thumbs up................
Before the memory of our victory in1983 permanently fades...........We have  the opportunity to repeat the feat after more than two decades..........
One cannot but help feel a little nostalgic,It would be really tragic if you are not able to repeat the 1983 world cup magic.......
That particular world cup had bequeathed on us Indians a legacy.............
We have again got a chance to show that for us , winning it is no longer just a fantasy..............
It does not matter that the Australians are the current world Champions.................
You have already shown ,Dhoni what you can do with your companions............
In fact, it seems that on your current form,It would be a travesty of fate if in the world cup you don’t perform...........
Whether it is the recent tournaments at home or the victory against the pakistan yesterday in semifinals............
The world cup has nor room for complacency, let it not put you at ease........
Unlike some countries which acquire a stray nuke.....We have to show to the world that 1983 was no fluke........
There is no better way to show your resilience..........then to break the two decade long silence.......
After a gap of more than twenty years..............You are once again the object of the nation’s eyes and ears...........
The whole country is ready to shed happy tears..............
Whether in poetry or in the media.......... , let it be said aloud.............
By winning the world cup, you shall be making the whole country proud..........
Go INDIA Go!!!!! 116 Crore Hearts pray for the 11 strong Warriors the VICTORY is with INDIA....................................
Please ensure that memories also last..................
JAI HIND!!!!!
SANDHYARAJ

critics on my India.............

World’s largest democracy is india is it not proud to every Indian............
 All of us are aware that the political parties of India would easily out number the stars in the galaxy...............
 The funny thing  that happens during the elections in our india...............
The political parties  gear up hiring marketing and advertisement agencies to make an impressive campaign that can get those votes...........
 The TV media collaborated with psephologists,work over time to force their biased views down the people’s throats in the name of analysis......... 
There will be discussions, brainstorming sessions on chalking out the manifestos, fielding of candidates that will keep the political parties too busy....
 Frankly speaking, how much such issues matter when it comes it is full of corruption...............
 The suggestions are for the voters and political parties alike........
 Reviews, comments, appraisals on the present political situation, what needs to be done are broadly discussed.............. 
Will these blogs, ad campaigns make the real difference?
 Are these catering to the real India? I wonder...........
Invariably, almost all the media focused on the internal security of the nation. The public memory is too short............
 I would thank the terrorists, who kept our memory alive with frequent blasts all over the country just to spread similar feelings all over the country......
 If not fully united, at the least, these blasts generated a need of an awakening.
 I do agree the internal security is a genuine problem but is it the only problem? 
Had it been the case Delhi would have given us a different result........ 
I still can’t accept that a handful of terrorists can take a country for a ride without local support............ 
Have we ever tried to find out the moles / black sheep among ourselves and punish them?
 What are the issues that concern the nation?
 What have they promised and what is the status vis-à-vis their promises?
Our PM promised a makeover of Mumbai to Shangai. Did it happen? 
and one thing as we dont want shangai just bring back mumbai....out of terrorists............
They promised flats on slums.......  it too did not happen.....never happens.... 
Governments screamed “garibi hatao” and boasted that it is for “aam aadmi” but it almost forgot common man........... 
Yet, we listen to their non-sense elections after elections........... 
This Government is of the people, for the people but not by the people.......
 Politicians have cleverly changed this phrase to “Buy the people”. Successive Govts preferred to provide people free-fish rather than teaching how-to-fish...............
 This conditioned the people to remain perennial beggars so that they can be bought from time and again on a single day luxury...........
 Election Day is the luxury day for this class of people.............
 They do not want to look into their past as it is not rosy......... 
They do not want to look into their future because it is bleak.........
 They are concerned about the present............
 How to survive the day is their prime challenge................ 
This is exploited by our politicians to the maximum................ 
They pay them for the day.......exaggerated pay, feed them fully, provide them liquor and maneuver things the way they want.............. 
These men vote as many times as they can without realizing that their votes tilt the balance of the country!  
Elite class people have nothing to do with the election................
 Whoever rules the country, the policies are derived by this class for mutual gains...........
Less we talk of the middle-class men is better.............. 
They are good at commenting, writing blogs or letters to the editor, good at whining but when it comes to action, they are vanished.
 So, ideally it is better not to waste energy on listening to them..... 
They do not have an idea of their own.,,,,,,,,,,,,, 
They easily get carried away by the TV channel they watch or the news magazine they read.,,,,, 
If they have problems, let them learn to live with it......... 
They have been doing it and they must be masters in it by now!
After 62 years of independence, there are around 70 crore people who do not have access to electricity..................
 It is a different story that those who have access to electricity have for only 50% of the available time............ 
There are no plans seems available with the Government to cater this ever-increasing demand...............
Again, there are around 60 crore people who lack access to drinking water. Rain water harvest, check dams are the need of the hour............ 
Has the Govt thrown any light on this?
Agricultural sector is thoroughly neglected................. 
Why can’t we try out other crops instead of toiling for rice and wheat repeatedly?
 Farmers do not need free power..............
 They want water..... By giving free power we waste the power and weaken the earth by pulling out water. 
Why can’t we try our Drip irrigation system or check dam system?
Numerous vehicles are introduced to roads every day that adds to the carbon emission.................
 If the public transport system has been efficient private vehicles would not have grown this far.................
 For an efficient public transport system, we lack good roads........
 Infra structure is one area that is long forgotten............... 
The golden quadrilateral project that took the life of a whistle blower is no longer visible.............
 Such projects would bring the cost down on logistics and can provide employment...............
Crime rate is on the rise.............. 
Violence is glorified in films..........
 Policemen are no longer people-friendly......... 
Corruption has taken roots among all levels like a cancer........
 Common public are losing interest in nation’s affairs....... 
What made it to happen? They behave indifferent to whatever happens around as long as it does not affect them primarily....... 
Did some one try to analyze and find a solution?
The problem lies with us................. 
We respect those who amass wealth by whatever means......... 
We remain indifferent to unethical practices around us............ 
Blaming politics as gutter, we isolated ourselves from it but keep whining when it failed to provide solutions............ 
We have learnt to live with problems and always expect Govt to provide us a solution................ 
We do not see an issue in a broader perspective but from a narrow perspective that matter to the individual only.................
I am sure, even this blog would not make a difference but I expressed.
 The election is not fought on issues but bought on money! 
Let us not cheat ourselves by discussing all these! 
There is a huge difference between Real India and the Political India..... 
sandhyaraj