for me life is a lesson

Being a teenager, I will be here.... here a short time..................
 But from the day my life began, knowingly and unknowingly, I have learned things......
 Some of these lessons have brought me wisdom, luck and fortune, while others brought misery and pain......................
 And yet all that I learned, which at first seemed destructive and disheartening, later turned out to have deeper meanings  blessings in disguise..............
They taught me that I had more to learn................
They gave me wisdom and helped me judge situations with a wider perspective and a more experienced mind.............
My enemies, I know are my best friends, because through them I have learned that I am no saint...................
You need two people for a conversation so you sure as heck need two people to start a fight......................
 Feuds and disputes  it's a two sided affair!
Love, hate, its all the same story, so never blame the other, because every time you point a finger, there are always three fingers pointing right back at you!!!
There is no denying it, nobody is perfect............
Perfection, in its fullest meaning, can never be attained..........................
Whenever I have a misunderstanding with another, whoever it may be and however much pride I have inside, there is always a feeling of hurt and guilt.............
I know, had I been a better person, I could have prevented an unnecessary dispute............
I eventually learn to value people more, and realize that human nature is too complicated for even the most advanced human mind, so there is no reason for me to be proud......................
If someone picks a fight with you, turn around and walk away.............
 There is dignity in walking away peacefully rather than proving yourself right  it could never be cowardly................this is waht i follow during disputes.....that tend me down obvoiously sometimes........but i hold on my heart..............
 I feel...........failures are the pillars of success.......................
Never ever be disheartened when things go wrong, because it's never the end................
The show must always go on...................
Learn from your mistakes, those lessons you can never forget.................
 Never question your abilities.... everyone is special in their own ways..................
I've never given up on my dreams, they mean too much to me, that's why no one can ever put me down, however hard they try...............
I am strong and my will power, I know will get met past every obstacle!
Fight for what you believe is right, because your heart can never lead you astray, it knows you too well................
Never forget who you are, because if you do, the past will come back to haunt you.............
friends............never change yourself for others, you were meant to be who you are........... You are unique in every way no one can ever replace you.........
At the end of the day I know my place is with God, and so I have learned to ignore people's comments, but good advice should never be missed out on.............
If people try to put you down, just walk on by, don't turn around, you only have to answer to yourself.............
 As long as your conscience is clear, everything will be fine.........................
 and ady to ady.............I've learned not to depend on people too much because god gifted me with the elements to help me stand on my own..............
And yet it is perfectly alright to ask for or lend a helping hand, because we are all human.................
 Never be afraid to cry, it's not a sign of weakness, instead it tells me that you are brave enough to show your face to the world in good times and bad..............
Have confidence in yourself, but never think too much of yourself either, because in god's eyes your no better than a pauper.
Always remember there are people better than you.......................
 At the same time never be ungrateful, value everything you have, there are people who are worse off than you..............
In every situation be practical and logical. Comprehend the situation and be down to earth. Think not only of yourself, take into consideration the view and plight of others everyone has something at stake. Selfish, self-centered people, always end up in situations where eventually frustration gets the better of them and they end up at a loss. Evil can never prevail, because we are always fighting to right the wrongs.....................
I try not to jump to a conclusion or judge a book by its cover, but being human I tend to err, I fall prey to my temptations the need to be like others and fit in.
 My weaknesses get the better of me, and I am influenced by the devil................
There are times, when all that I've learned is just flushed down the drain.
 And by thought, words and deeds, I deprive people of their rights, I hurt their feelings, I make a mess of a perfectly good situation, but above all I hurt myself.
Guilt takes over and it seems that everything falls apart! Its just that in my head, emotions and thoughts run wild, and the whole world starts spinning............

Have faith in God, He is your savior. Your life is in his hands, whatever happens, its always for your good. I guess, we've all learned these lessons, yet we tend to forget them. We have become so absorbed in this materialistic world that we've forgotten our priorities.
 It is human to err, but it is possible to be alert and remember that we have no right to deprive others of their right.
 We live in one world, so we have to learn to share.
 If we took away the "selfishness" and "greed" that exists, the equation of life would be complete.............
sandhyaraj

friends dont trust even friends...............

The question of Trust is obviously one of the crucial ones in human relationships................. 
Trust is something we are being testted about day to day, in all sorts of ways  privately, at work, with friends, in society, literary everywhere........................
When I reflect on my life I can remember today tommorrow and forever about a friend who made me mentally sick and was let down by that person I trusted.....................toady and she is a girl.......my classamate......... 
Basically I keep up the trusting attitude towards every person. .........................
People act. In reality, no one cares about you.......................
Life is a game, and everyone is playing for themselves....................
And there are no such things as teams  they last for a while, but eventually, you'll be betrayed. 
Life is a game, and the settings have been chosen. 
It's a free for all....... 
Everyone fights for the security of their own future.............. 
It may seem like people want to help you out but in fact, they just show it to show it............ 
Your problems don't effect anyone but you that trusted someone you talk to will listen, but they'll never take a minute to think about it from your shoes..... 
No, you know what matters to people? 
The attention and fame.................... 
Everyone just wants to get advanced..........  no one really, truly, gives a damn about you.............. 
People act like they care so other people can say "oh look how nice this person is." But you really think that the listeners give a damn about your problems? 
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Humans....... we're the more cruel, selfish species on the planet..............
Why? Why are we made this way? 
I guess I'm not complaining... I'm just wondering........... 
Why are we so cruel? Why don't we care about each other? 
No one, I repeat, no one cares............. 
Why? Why? To know that someone truly cares is all I need to beleive...  They're all out for their own gain................... 
This is just a warning to everyone....................
 Don't fall into the trap I fell into never trust anyone. ANYONE.
 Never trust anyone blindly. 
You think he/she wants to help you? Think again, because no one cares.....................even your best friend...amy betray you............this is spelled with my experience..................today..............
when you can never know for sure what someone else is thinking about?
 one of my friend told me believe 99% of what you see and 1% of what you hear, so we can never know who is trustworthy and who isn't........... even if you SEE someone do something, there's a 1% chance that you saw wrong............
 its a small chance, but its still there.................
we might find people we really DO trust, and should, but then they can change into a not so trustworthy person........ that, or betray your trust for their trust in someone else, only to get screwed over by that person for someone they trust....not asking this to be depressing, but its something i wonder about.............in the people arrond me........
So we trust from our experience....................... 
We trust our parents, if they never tell stuff that you've told them to others................ 
But if they do, only once, we don't trust them anymore.....................
The way we humans are brought up is not normal in nature............ 
We have our parents for so long, which makes us think that all the people will treat us like how our parents treat us... but they don't.................. 
People who trust are (no offence) too innocent and naive.......................... 
Of course we can't trust blindly, not even people who we've known for years.................. 
People who trust think others trust them back, when the others don't...................
 In this society of human, it's really and sadly man for himself. 
Because it's human for themselves, no matter how much you trust or love them....................be carefull friends..................
sandhyaraj

worst politicians arround us.........

Friends do you know whenever i see politicians in my country i feel like saying................Hey Politician, Shut your Mouth!
You beat out our brains…like all we ever saw!
Don’t you have anymore hands that you ought to be shaking?
The political, neanderthal wheel,.........................ain’t missing a spoke, in you, I feel.
 Hey friends politicians are like ..............another dummy to nod his head “yes”,
Who gets elected thinking they know what’s best.................
As soon as they enter...............they turns out to be like all the rest,
I am so tired of having to bite my lip looking at such people in my country....................don't you.............
if i have a chance..................
I’m ready to hand each and every one of you a pink slip!
and tell each one of the politician......looting our country's health and wealth............to....................
Get Out! You’re Done! Your Job is through!
Quick…while there’s still something left to fix after you!
I swear to myself...and not to the Lord,
I never thought someone could utter such confusion...in a word!
“What we need is a lot less talk, and a lot more action!”
You can whine, and you can blame,...............forever................
But in the end the agenda stilll stays the same.............
And if you think you are so powerful, that you can just drop a faithfull cheer in us.................
So go ahead…and whip up some more of your political magic spell,
You can take all your “mumbo-jumbo” with you, and go straight to Hell!
We need heart and we need a vision!
That’s just how it works when you’re on a mission!
So go ahead...and plan your foreign tours and forget the national forum,
Continue to worry about how everyone else on the planet feels, why break decorum?
But don’t wonder why there’s a fire burning in hearts of common people, as you look out your office,
Want to see why there’s a problem, you’re exactly what the mess is!
Now I know that I may sound mean, and you probably think I’m filthy nasty.....................
But we are Citizens, so control your elitism, and don’t be so hasty..............
we helped put you in that Office…we can help make sure you get out!
Having your name plaque on the door is not what our government is all about.....................
We can easily replace you, of that I have no doubt....................
we are waiting for you to clean up this mess…
we know keeping track of the budget and all, can’t be that easy,
But most of the stuff you do with all of our money…is pretty sleazy..............
And yeah…with all we are saying we guarantee you…that you dont need the job!
But may be…that’s the answer…let’s advocate some poor slob!
if we chooose a justice for you............and go to an advocate or any other politician............
And not someone…who wants to say a few words...then make a book deal!
He would hang out at the cooler, sharpen lots of pencils, basically, lack a lot of zeal…
we know he wouldn’t do any worse than you…That’s exactly how we feel!
And then when day is over, he would quietly punch his time card in the clock...................
Then  lets ..................watch the increase of our politicians will make in useful productivity…
Because when a politician makes a law or decision there’s one thing he will clearly see!
That he is not so way above it…finding programs for the masses to “eat cake” for free,
He thinks as part of the middle classes, 
He thinks, “Hey…what I do affects me!”
So there you have it....a nickels worth of advice during high inflation,
We need a regular guy running every aspect of our nation..................
iam not writing this for a cahnge.........or I’m not trying to start a brand new revolution,
So tell me…what do you think of my solution?
Go ahead then…you “Blue-Blood” Snobbist,Sell us out…and “Kiss-up” to all the Lobbyist....................
I proclaim your time is ending!
you may not get the messsage of mine.................
There will come a day........i telll you straightly to all poliitcians.......................
When you will find yourself booted out of power!
And listen then to one beneath you,
Back to your own personal corporation…is what I bequeath you!
And then watch us find a new and better way,
In what the common indian has got to say................
sandhyaraj........