Wednesday, May 25, 2011

WHAT IS A WIFE..............


A woman who feels desired is many things..............
She is less likely to reach frustration with husband or the children or the cat or the dog...........
She is more likely to feel like an important part of your life and the home you share and the children you created together...............
She is more likely to look at her own body............and instead of feeling disgust at the way it has changed............
Since bringing your children into the world........................
A woman who feels desired is so much easier to sit across the table fromas she is less likely to be judging her own skin,her own curves,her own worth..........
She is more likely to care for the body she has been given,feed it good, whole foods put it to frequent use in the garden enjoy the pull of muscle and increasing strength
as she carries ever-growing children........... and becomes more confident with household repairs............................
A woman who feels desired will rear children who see their bodies as perfect works of art that should be celebrated respected and capable of love....................
It takes very little to make a woman feel desired..............
It does not require expensive jewelery..............
exotic flowers...............pages of poems..........romantic dates................or even dramatic words..................
It is  nothing more than a look a simple touch a well placed word and by listening to what she's saying and then responding appropriately.............is what a woman expect's..........
Without those simple things even a strong woman may start to feel less.......
And less leads to depression self loathing ..........anger.................
frustration................bad parenting and a marriage that may not last the next five years..........................
So when your wife asks you,
"Do you love me forever?"the answer should never bea long pause followed by a apologetic
"I just love you."
Because sometimes,a woman needs to know she is desired............. 
                                              or
 she'll start to believe it is no longer true....................
                                                                sandhyaraj....
Better forward to all men............who neglect their wife's

EARLY IN THE MORNING...........


Today earlyin the morning mist my heart looks like a beach................
After a long summers day absolute chaos...............
A whole life of people Or just a day of chaos..............
And today when my heart was just like a beach early morning just as the sun came up...................washed clean of all that came before not a print unblemished by peoples disregard for it is clean of all chaos...................
Then today should let the first person in who walk a long trail lonely path cut into fresh sand serenity has come beauty.....
The first footprint interrupted by a calm wave sweeping to interrupt the first sign of someone walking on my heart...........
Then in imagination as the day passes time drags on the beauty changed more people than just one disrupting my clean beach walking, jumping, lying on my beach........................
The beauty changed to chaos but for one thing the footprint of love of care that the beauty should not be touched........
Then hurt of the careless one leaving their dirt behind muddy footprints of a careless child or a conceited adult.............
So during the erosion of my beach day in day out night for night cleaning and sweeping.................
But for those careless footprints of the one who used the beach with no care..................
Will the footprints of the new day come back and make the heart forget those yesterday chaos..................